INSIGHTS FROM THE DIASPORA: DALE RUFFIN’S EXPERIENCE IN NIGERIA

In an interview with Biodun Adegoroye, Dale Ruffin shares his personal experiences and reflections as a diasporan in Nigeria. Ruffin recounts his initial apprehensions about traveling to the U.S. due to negative media portrayals of violence. However, he contrasts this with positive experiences in Nigeria, where he was struck by the ingenuity and resourcefulness of the local people. One vivid memory is of a young Nigerian boy who skillfully repaired a generator, demonstrating impressive mechanical talent.

Ruffin also reflects on his marriage to a Nigerian woman, highlighting the initial challenges and cultural adjustments. Despite early difficulties with his father-in-law’s expectations, Ruffin’s commitment and respect for Nigerian traditions helped bridge cultural gaps. The wedding ceremony, marked by vibrant traditions and celebrations, remains a cherished memory.

Regarding his experience in the U.S., Ruffin notes that his Nigerian wife was warmly accepted by his family, who embraced the cross-cultural union with an open heart. He attributes this acceptance to a broader cultural openness within African-American families.

Ruffin concludes with a suggestion for Nigeria to focus on improving governmental services to better the lives of its citizens. His experiences offer a blend of personal anecdotes and constructive advice, reflecting both the challenges and positives of navigating cross-cultural relationships and living between two worlds.